Age difference in love
Love is the eternal question age difference. It was once believed that the man should be bigger than a few years, the gap should not exceed ten years and the women who were with younger men were rare and frowned. What has changed now? Well love is always love, surgery and beauty tricks have made it more charming young skins, faces and bodies that once would have deteriorated quickly, we are more sports, tonics, more motivated to not grow old.
Adolescents who mature quicklyThe girls who mature earlier
It was said - and it still says - that girls mature earlier, not only physically, but also intellectually, developing personalities that before adolescence come off faster from the child's world than male peers to enter the sphere "woman". This rapid development and emancipated, now devoid of social taboos and barriers, leads inevitably to grow up quickly - often too much - and to be attracted to a partner who has the most experienced, who can teach and introduce higher modes and environments, terms of years of evolution, not to mention the father figures that these adults can inspire. It is always beneficial this accelerated growth? Are really more mature men who invaghiscono younger girls? Not always the answer is obvious. If there is enough love and maturity on both side, the story is here to stay, otherwise it is an adventure passing and, still, a wealth of experience.
Men with younger women
Women and the toy-boy
Age difference: 10, 15, 20 years
It has a tendency to say that up to 10 years the difference is not clear, although an older woman a decade ago more than a stir him, old legacy of a cliché to extinguish. Being young and bring their good years can be "rejuvenated" by five years or more in the eyes of the observers and the distance between spouses thins. Another issue is when you go over, although more rare: what about a he or a she who as many as 15 or 20 years more than the other? Could almost sembrarne father (most frequent case) or mother and affinity couple can be, and sexual chemistry? They are passing the unions so far apart in terms of age?
Become a father after 50 yearsThe question children in a pair
Even more delicate is the subject children to such a different pair. Often the biggest partner has already had a family, many times with older children, and what we want to create is a different family environment. In a situation where she is younger, the need of the woman's maternity emerges and man can find himself to be father in old age, when maybe could already be a grandfather. The possibility of being re-parent It strengthens the desire of youth that took him to union with a younger woman, even though social hardship can weigh considerably and should be dealt with fortitude and determination. In the reverse case, however, the nature interposes the biological age of the mother as the increased difficulty in conceiving, although women, recently, become more and more mothers agedIf man does not have an urgent need to have biological children with partner, it must be ready to accept a simple life as a couple, considering the age difference that is steadily increasing with time.
The recipe for lasting love
We get to the point: how to prolong the relationship of a couple that in the eyes of all is not balanced in terms of age difference? Stating that feeling, when it pure and sincere, just to ensure eternal happiness, is illusory. The difference counts and it is manifested in the attendance of their friendships, social spheres, the working environments; becomes an obstacle when there are grown children, perhaps almost the same age of the companion or partner of a parent. With the passing of time, one of the partners get older before - enters in old age - and the other is still inevitably younger, the difference of age is manifested most visibly even when health is. In this case, the cohesion and harmony of the couple that are put to the test, which exceed or less strangers looks and judgmental of others, accept differences in taste and views, which will soften or stiffen to meet all ' other. As in all pairs - but this even more - the balance, the love and reward commitment efforts to hold together a relationship that, if it's destiny, will last.